When we are angry, we may say or do things that we would not do otherwise. Anger stirs the emotions to take control of the mind. Anger entices us to act without thinking clearly. Anger could lead us to violence, revenge, or bitterness. Anger moves quickly, tempting us to act rashly without understanding the consequences.
When we are angry, we must not lose control of our emotions. Don't let anger take control. Anger is never our friend. Remember, anger wants to control us. When we lose self-control, bad things can happen fast. "And don't sin by letting anger gain control over you" (Ephesians 4:26, NLT).
When we are angry, it's time to stop and think. Acting without thinking can multiply our problems. Saying words that we should not, can bring serious damage to important relationships. "Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander" (Ephesians 4:31, NLT). Once those words are spoken, they cannot be taken back. We must stop and think before we speak.
When we are angry, someone has hurt us in word or deed. We could become vulnerable to anger's attack. Unresolved anger leads to bitterness. It poisons the mind and endangers our health. Choose to forgive, and "forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you" (Ephesians 4:32, NLT).
